Blog # 1 on How to Seduce a Girl?
The life of a modern person, especially in megacities, often goes along the route “work - home - work”. People who are passionate about their profession or busy work to the maximum due to circumstances have to arrange their personal lives along the way of their professional activities. Therefore, girls often have the idea that meeting a man at work is a good option.
But how to do it? We will try to answer this question in this article.
Love affair at work
Relations at work is a hot topic and is actively discussed at any time. It is not for nothing that the director Eldar Ryazanov in the USSR made a film of the same name and showed what could happen to people working together if a spark broke out between them. However, the situation is interesting: the relationship of the boss and subordinate. But this is all a movie. What about life?
It seems to us that a lonely woman needs to get acquainted with a man at work according to a certain plan.
Step One: Observe and Inquire
Most likely, you should not immediately approach the person with whom you work together. And not every girl has the courage to make acquaintance so easily without preparing.
It is necessary to observe a little “object”, to understand some things:
- is a man free? Determining if he has a wife can be quite easy: by the presence or absence of a ring on the ring finger of his right hand. Some husbands, for various reasons, do not wear these jewelry. But if you have such a person in front of you, and you know from reliable sources that he is married, this should be alarming. It’s not known why the guy hides that he is married,
- you should find out what are the habits and nature of the "object". If this is a new employee, one can again observe how a man behaves, how he reacts to different situations, what he does in his spare minutes, what personal things he carries at work. If a person has been working in the organization for a long time, you can ask your colleagues something about him. Surely, there is a lady in the team who knows everything about everyone and is ready to share valuable information.
Therefore, before you go to get acquainted with the man you like, a woman needs to make inquiries and scout the situation.
Step Two: Action
A lot depends on the place where people work. Getting to know in the office is one thing, but in a factory is another. But there are universal ways to meet a man in the service:
- Woman as an expert. If an employee recently got a job in a company, you can take patronage over him: to help, suggest how to act in different situations, taking into account the rules and customs of the organization. Undoubtedly, such help will be appreciated positively by the young man. Patronage relations must gradually be converted into love affairs. Periodically, it is worth giving signals that help to a man is rendered not for friendship, but for another reason. Otherwise, he will not perceive a woman as an object for love, unless he himself experiences this feeling.
- If a man has been working in the company for a long time, and you are a new employee, then, on the contrary, you need to turn to him for help. This is a great way to start a dialogue. Friendships will gradually develop, and there are not far from love ones. We advise you as soon as possible to declare the man his desire to establish a relationship, otherwise he will consider you just a friend and get the status: “my girlfriend”, “lover”, “wife” will be much more difficult. By the way, it is not recommended to start frivolous novels with partners and colleagues. As already noted, in each team there is an employee who knows everything about everyone and carries information, like a magpie in a forest.Sooner or later, everyone will know about your “affair”, and it will be difficult for the former “cordial partners” to work together.
- "Pretended laxity." In the previous way of dating, it was about a woman to purposefully go to a man and ask for help with work. This also requires some courage. But you can get help as if by chance. Classic story: a lady in the office drops a stack of papers from her hands, the guy is in a hurry to help. They collect documents together, are in close proximity to each other. A man feels the scent of a woman’s perfume. Their hands accidentally touch. ... In general, such a general picture from a romantic film. You definitely need to use this method if people work in the office. Scattered paper on the floor - it's not scary. You won’t get to know this at the factory. Absolutely, it’s definitely not worthwhile to deliberately put your hand in the milling machine, and wait until the man saves you. So you can become an invalid.
- Joint lunch. A meal for a person is not just a replenishment of the supply of useful substances in the body. This is something sacred. We have breakfast, lunch or dinner only in the company of close people, or alone. Many dates take place in cafes, restaurants, sushi bars. Therefore, a very good option to talk with a colleague you like is to find out where he and other employees go to dinner and ask to go with him. If the person in the team is new, you can tell him about where it is best to eat in your free time, and call with you.
Step Three: Date Invitation
All of these methods are mainly aimed at starting to communicate with the man you like. If you do not take any other actions, the young man will not even suspect that he has become a candidate for lovers, husbands, etc. You need to do something else.
There are two options:
- It is actively hinting that you have feelings for a man: a languid look, certain phrases, etc. This is a classic. Women at all times searched for men themselves and approached to get acquainted. Usually they used hints to make it clear to the person they liked that they were not indifferent to him. The problem is one: men need to speak in plain text, otherwise there is a risk of being misunderstood.
- "Confession in the forehead." To invite a colleague on a date is a bold act for many ladies. But that’s how you need to act in order to quickly achieve the desired result. If we talk about interest in a man, there are not enough forces, there is one good option. You need to take a notebook and pencil, go to the "object" and say with a smile the following: "Hello! Could you help me in one thing? How to meet (go on a date) with a man like you? ” If a young man has at least some interest in you, he will find something to answer. It would be ideal if he really gives instructions on how to meet with him after hours.
Thus, we recommend that you do not wait until the young man realizes that the girl wants to meet him, and take the initiative in her own hands.
Best job for dating
Some ladies are thinking about where to go to work, in which company to get a job in order to find a man. They are not interested in salaries, working conditions and career growth. They just want to get to where it will be possible to successfully search for interesting men.
Professions where girls enjoy the increased attention of the stronger sex exist.
And now we are talking about a pretty decent activity:
1. Waitresses. True, customers of cafes, restaurants and bars, having “warmed up” with alcohol, do not always behave themselves with dignity.
3. Sellers in men's stores. Not the best option to settle in the conditional "World of the Fisherman." Probably most of all there will be married men and people of age.
You can search for a vacancy in the sports field. Men will be there with a good figure, and if you are lucky, you can start a relationship with a celebrity: a Russian national football player, a famous boxer, etc.
Thus, getting to know an interesting man at work is quite possible. You only need to gain confidence and be smart. One question remains open: is it worth starting an office romance? In the Ryazanov video, everything ended well. But how to work further if the relationship did not work out? Obviously, this state of affairs will negatively affect the mood in the company.
It also happens that the employees between whom a love relationship has arisen and develops are so overwhelmed by the happiness that has piled up that they forget about work and decompose the team. Therefore, in many companies, office romances are prohibited. At a minimum, your relationship cannot be advertised.
How to meet a girl at work?
What if you work tirelessly, and your life is not arranged? Day after day you arrive at work early in the morning, and leave home late at night. And there is dinner, sleep, breakfast and all over again. On weekends, you spend time at home, doing personal business or hobbies. Or maybe relaxing with friends. How to arrange a family life or find a girl for sex? There is a solution: you can meet a girl at work!
However, getting to know someone at work is different from getting to know a girl on the street. There are some nuances: both positive and negative. Let's sort it out in order ...
What is dating at work? This is not only an acquaintance with an employee. This is also an acquaintance with a girl who will be at your work. Will go on personal matters or work. The most important thing - so that acquaintance at work does not affect labor productivity and does not cause the anger of superiors, if you yourself are not.
It is very important, for a successful meeting, not to be a gray mouse among the team. Try to be active and have friendships with the most vivid personalities of your work. If the team is very large - it is easier and more interesting. Where there are few workers and everything in plain sight is more complicated.
If you already have a reputation for being quiet, problems can also arise. When people find out about your plans, there will be rumors and discussions behind. Often, this cannot be avoided. But the main thing here is your attitude to this - you do not care what anyone says there. Be independent of such dirt.
I already wrote above: there are two of the most popular situations in which you will need to meet a girl at work.
- Girl from your team
- A girl who is at your job but not working with you
In any case, your status at work will be important.
By status I mean two things:
- Your position
- Your level of communication with the team
If you are the boss, then you clearly have advantages. If not, then keep in mind that the girl may not know your exact position and then you can beat her as you like. Naturally beneficial for you.
The way you are treated in a team and how they perceive you as a person. How important is your opinion to colleagues.
The level of communication can always be improved, but this is not necessary. In case the girl is not from the team, it will not even be important. But it can play into your hands. For example, if you are in the center of attention of a team, a girl will not pass by you side.
Meet at work
Choose the right time and place. In any case, there is an important rule of dating at work:
The less people around you know about your flirting, the better. Moreover, sometimes it happens that the authorities may be against such a situation.
Two scenarios are suitable for meeting a colleague:
- The beginning of communication, when you were left alone and you needed help (supposedly)
- At a corporate event, or when you get together as a team at work to relax
Corporate theme is a separate topic. Now we are talking about dating in the work environment.
If a girl came to your work, try to meet her first and find out what she needs.Here you can fool her a little by saying that you know everything and invite her to your office. And there is already a matter of technology ...
We enter trust, we give information. We translate communication into a more intimate channel, adding flirtation and an easy compliment. Take the phone number. The same can be done not in the office. But if nobody is around, this is the best situation.
Use any situation when you are alone with a girl for dating. Or, when in the team you will have the opportunity to take the initiative, thereby drawing closer to the goal. For example, you have a party and take that beauty as your assistant.
But I think you may have fears that will prevent you from a good acquaintance. Try not to panic and be natural. The excitement is normal. Just talk to the girl as with an ordinary acquaintance.
The next step, after the start of communication, will be the manifestation of your sympathy for the girl. In a team, a girl may not understand your goals, thinking that you simply communicate with her as a colleague. In order not to be one of her friends, show her your interest in her ...
You know, and you like me) There is something interesting in you ...
As you can see, this can be an easy compliment with flirting elements. It is important not to be intrusive and stand out from all the fans of this girl. And if she is cute, she has a lot of them. What are they doing? Fall asleep with her flattery and compliments. We have a different approach.
Work on your non-verbal: your look at her, your movements and your walk next to her. You can learn to look at it in a special way, not like everyone else. And what do all the guys and men do? There are a lot of things that can not be categorically done with girls.
And what next, after you met at work?
If the girl is calling, be sure to exchange phones with her or take her VKontakte address. If the girl is from your work, you can not rush with exchanges of contacts. Just chat with her, get close. Flirt and show your sympathy. Pay attention to other girls at your work. Then your goal will be to see that you are popular with women. And she will have more interest in you.
Once you have the girl's phone number, you can invite her on a date. Remember privacy and don’t tell anyone about your office romance. Getting to know girls at work is awesome! If you have questions about the topic, how to meet a girl at work - write in the comment, I will answer.
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Hello! I am 31 years old. A new employee (married) came to me 1 year ago. Equal positions. After a couple of months, she began to flirt with me, write in contact, invite me to a date. At first I refused, because I did not want to mess with a married woman. With her husband, she did not have a better relationship. As a result, after 4 months she achieved it and we started dating. They became a couple. She first confessed my love to me, filed for divorce. She came to work at my place .... she told her friend that she was ready to divorce for me. Everything was fine, she was crazy about me. Waiting for a divorce. She said that her husband became a stranger to her (they lived 2 years together).
After 1.5 months, it happened so she got sick and blamed me for it. She said that we won’t be together anymore. I tried to explain that these difficulties must be overcome together and we will be even more united, our love will be even stronger. But she did not listen.
And after 14 days I find out that she went to her husband, but I do not see happiness in her eyes.I think I returned to him because I did not want to be alone (she would be 27 soon).
How to return now I do not know. Did not contact 2 weeks. Snot did not dissolve. He was joking at work. I didn’t talk to anyone about her and our relations, I didn’t cry to anyone. In general, I did not show that I feel bad. She first wrote ... just talked about various topics. In the conversation, the relationship was not affected. Has not shown much concern to me so far.
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Advantages and disadvantages
Pros This type of dating are common topics for conversation, joint projects when you spend a lot of time together, as well as regular communication at work (and not only) and daily meetings.
The main cons counters of the authorities are considered any novels that undermine the discipline and working capacity of the team.
Also, many pay attention to the gossip of colleagues who will discuss relationships, and in some situations use the vulnerability of lovers.
About the importance of your status
For a long time everyone knows (or, at least, guesses) that your social status also affects success with girls.
But if your new acquaintance may not have a clue about what your “rank”, so to speak, outside of work, then when you get to know at work, this begins to play a big role.
She will definitely watch that:
- how do you communicate with your colleagues
- do you let them complain about your life
- do they listen to your opinion
- and do they listen to you generally
If these indicators are at a high or at least acceptable level, then you will have a much better chance of her seduction.
However, this ceases to play a big role, if you are initially somewhat removed from the team, do not try to build a special relationship with them, then this too can play into your hands. Women are always attracted by something unusual, and such a detachment from the majority is very unusual.
Meet a colleague
This situation is very common when a new man comes to the team, and if he is cute and interesting, then all the girls begin to be interested in him and look for ways to get to know a colleague.
In general, you can meet a colleague in several ways.The most important thing is to come up with a reason, and it can be commonplace. To start a conversation with a new colleague, you can tell him the following phrases.
1. I can help you get comfortable in the team and talk about the rules.
2. You have filled out the document incorrectly, and I can help you deal with errors.
3. If you do not know where to eat, I can show you a cafe where we dine with the whole office.
4. Could you help me bring a bunch of documents.
5. Blue is considered to be our corporate color, so it would be advisable for you to purchase a suit of this color.
You can also get acquainted with a colleague in refresher courses and company trainings, if both you and your chosen one are new employees in the company.
Your position and social status
It has long been known that successful acquaintance and communication with a girl is influenced not only by the ability to be an interesting conversationalist, but also certain social status. When communicating on the street, the question of work may not be decisive, because people communicate on abstract topics and enjoy each other's company at a particular moment.
In the course of labor activity the situation changes a little. The girl knows about the position of a man, she will not succeed in deceiving her, so you must initially be honest with your interlocutor.
Do not think that only the bosses are worthy of the attention of wonderful employees. Of course, there is a separate category of women who are ready to sleep with a manager for the sake of advancement and gaining material benefits, but they cannot build serious relationships with such young ladies.
How to attract attention?
Before meeting, it would be nice find out about the girl’s interest in a relationship. One option is to communicate with colleagues with whom she managed to make friends. It is important to trust this person so that everyone around you does not become aware of your plans.
It is possible to talk with the personnel department, often resumes are kept, which indicate marital status. Social networks also reflect the real state of things, and by learning the name and surname, you can get additional information about a person on the Internet.
How to meet a girl at her work? Should start with non-verbal communication. This applies to all types of dating: on the street, in a nightclub, and even at the rink. Regular glances and smiles will help determine mutual interest. The intersection of views and the delay for a short time show that the girl evaluates the man, which is a good result.
If the person you like is confusedly looks away, you are on the right track. Continue these nonverbal games, gradually increasing the amount of time devoted to the young lady.
Often a different method is used when the time of “peers” is dosed in a certain way: first you watch the girl, smile at her, and then you do not pay attention. In such periods, the young woman doubts whether she is interesting to a man, she is tormented by curiosity and a desire to quickly understand the situation.
One of the places to meet can be a variety of corporate events. Such holidays unite employees, and under the influence of a small dose of alcohol, many fears and doubts are erased. Having shown your interest in communicating with a girl in non-verbal ways, proceed to get to know each other.
Music and easy communication will help you feel more relaxed, so it’s easy to talk and get a phone in this situation. However, “corporate parties” are not frequent, so meeting directly at the workplace will become more relevant.
Getting to know at work is easiest in the following situations.:
- the man is left alone with the girl, and other colleagues are absent at the moment (left for lunch or home after work),
- other employees are in place, but there was an opportunity to take the initiative (to help the girl deal with the printer, documents).
Chat calmly and confidently, add a little humor to the conversation, and do not be a “gray mouse”. Topics for conversation will mainly be related to work, so you don’t need to show much imagination, because the reason to talk lies on the surface. The main purpose of the initial stage will be exactly the acquaintance, so it may not last too long.
Further communication proceeds fairly calmly. Talk with the girl on work issues, behave in a team adequately, participate in negotiations.
In parallel, it would be nice learn about interests young ladies, what she does in her free time. Expanding the range of questions, you show the girl your own interest, and the ability to maintain a conversation on various topics also positively affects the overall impression.
Do not forget that at this stage you should not forget about colleagues: keep in touch with them, communicate with women so that the future lover sees that the man is popular. Show interest in the girl, giving her an easy compliment, but precisely indicating your desire to continue communication:
- “You know, I liked you very much, there is something unusual in you!” - the phrase will show the girl the seriousness of intentions and distinguish the man from the mass of other employees.
- “It was really boring here without you!” - a light laid-back compliment showing the location.
- “If you have questions, be sure to contact us” - demonstrate your readiness to support the employee and help in difficult times.
Regarding contact sharing (by phones), then there are several options:
- if a girl doesn’t appear often, for example, she comes to update the base of the legal system once a week, then after meeting and brief communication it’s worth taking the phone and continuing to communicate in a more suitable place,
- if the young lady is a direct colleague, and you spend a lot of time side by side, then with the exchange of phones you can pull a little, try to get to know the girl better, get close, flirt.
After waiting a certain time and showing a little effort, the coveted number will be received. You can invite the young woman on a date, where the feelings are fundamentally different from the relationship in the workplace.
Important enough privacy issue. Possible gossip and unpleasant views from colleagues can not be ruled out, so the fewer people know about the novel, the calmer the lovers. Colleagues will begin to ask you about relationships, make fun of, but most importantly - to talk less about the feelings present, so the man will save his own face and not harm the girl.
It often happens that new “arrivals” to work are presented to the whole team. At this moment, you can find out the name of the girl, evaluate her appearance, exchange a couple of phrases.
If you have been working together for a long time, then personal conversations should preferably be moved away from prying eyes: talk in the corridor, “catch” the girl on the way home, specify that you are in one direction.
Away from the workplace, relationships become less formal, so communication will become much easier. A man has time and opportunity to observe a beautiful person, so do not miss this: exchange views, be more open, and a light compliment is never superfluous. If a girl asked for help, then give support, but you should not constantly “spin” next to her in the hope of receiving a share of attention.
Lovers have to face a rather serious problem - “double relationship”. For high-quality and timely completion of tasks it is necessary to exclude personal relationships, then you can not worry about the conscientious performance of duties. When personal relationships appear, employees have to make a choice in favor of love or work, because completely different factors are decisive for these concepts.
However, lovers rarely stop such obstacles: the beloved girl does not get out of the guy’s head, work and personal life cannot be separated, but the man reasonably assessed the possible development of events and accepts any outcome.
How to meet a woman colleague at work?
It should be noted that acquaintance at work, in contrast to acquaintance with the fair sex on the street, has some rules that must be followed so as not to aggravate relationships and not turn the nascent acquaintance into outright enmity.
An office romance is quite common, because constant contact with a person at work cannot pass without a trace, especially if the object is well-brought up, looks beautiful and looks after its figure and behavior. To fall in love with a person, it is not necessary to contact throughout the working day, sometimes it’s enough just to glance at each other and your wild fantasy will complete the rest for you.
To get to know a woman at work, you need to show her your sympathy, so as not to move into the category of friends with whom she can discuss her unsuccessful novels.
It is not difficult to attract a woman’s attention, for example, you can occasionally cast glances at her until she notices it. After she sees an interest in her person, she will begin to look closely at you, but at this moment it is important not to pay special attention to the girl, and then you will notice with your side vision that she is looking at you, because the girls are curious by nature .
The main thing in this game is to ignore the interest of the fairer sex, because when she feels attention to herself, she may lose interest, and this way will make her doubt whether you have sympathy or not and believe me, she will try to find out by all means. The same technique can be used in conversation with her, that is, sometimes vigorously discussing all topics, and sometimes answering all her questions in a monosyllabic way, but you should not use this technique often, because if you often ignore a woman, then most likely she will think that you are not interested in it.
In meeting with a work colleague, reasons for meetings will help, but in order for them to appear, you need to learn as much as possible about her interests. You can find out what a woman is interested in through colleagues, because in each team there are people who like to discuss others. You can also learn about the interests of women through social networks. You need to analyze her page, view the information that she wrote about herself or look at which groups she is subscribed to. If you are the boss, then solving this problem is not at all difficult. You can go the most creative way and just make a special questionnaire, which must necessarily be reliably filled by all employees.
By the way, it should be noted that communicating with a woman on the Internet is an equally effective way of dating, because it is on a social network that a person can feel confident, especially if he believes that he is communicating with a person from another city. If she does not pay attention to you at work, try to like her in correspondence.
Register on the site that she visits most often and add her as a friend. Try to start communication on a free topic, get interested in it and try to make it so that she sees the meaning of visiting a social network only in communicating with you.
If you want to interest a woman even more, then try not to go online and write to her for several days. If you are not indifferent to a woman, she will begin to write to you constantly first.
After chatting on the Internet, invite her to a romantic evening or buy a beautiful bouquet of flowers and admit to her that you are that secret admirer who has been hopelessly and long in love with her.
Such information will help you when you decide to invite her to meet, because if a woman is married and you invite her to a cafe for a cup of coffee, then most likely she will refuse, fearing publicity or condemnation from the employees. Well, if you invite her to the match of your favorite team, then most likely she will gladly respond to the offer.
If you do not want to rush things and want to introduce intrigue into your acquaintance, then start caring for the woman so that she will be lost in conjecture who is paying attention to her. Order a luxurious bouquet of flowers using courier delivery and put a note in it, just do not specify a name. Next time, leave a box of chocolates on the table, be sure to attach a note to it. Then leave the toy or decoration, naturally with a note. All this time the woman will be in anticipation.
Stretch this way of courtship for several weeks and then, go to her with a bouquet and admit that all the gifts before this were from you. If this option does not suit you, then attach a note to the next gift with the address of the cafe where you will be waiting for her, believe me, a woman will definitely come at least to satisfy her interest.
Many women also like to win, so if you work in a women's team and want to get to know each other and start a relationship with one single, try to win the sympathy of the entire women's team. If a woman sees that you are attractive to many, then she involuntarily begins to think: “if everyone is crazy about him, then why not make him yours?” But, it should be noted that if you like one single woman, and everyone likes you, do not have an affair, because women do not like loving men.
Try to be a confident and responsible specialist. But, do not confuse confidence with arrogance and arrogance, because women do not like such men. Self-confidence allows you to judge you as a competent and intelligent specialist who can find a way out of any situation, and women love it.
Try to amuse the woman, because if a woman feels comfortable with a man and in his company she feels comfortable and provocatively - this is the key to success, but do not overdo it, because you should not be mistaken for a regular jester who escaped from the circus.
Show your leadership skills and ambitiousness, because if you are in good standing with your superiors. You can get a good salary and career growth. Stability is important for every woman, and if you have a good salary, this already indicates that you can provide her, for example, when she is on maternity leave (remember, women always think ahead).
If you liked a woman and you don’t want to put off the dating process in a long box, go up and ask for permission. Do not be afraid of failure, because on the contrary, women often value serious, persistent and determined men. For such an acquaintance, choose the most appropriate moment, for example, if a colleague hurry to the authorities, it is better to postpone the dating process and choose, for example, the moment when she goes for lunch.
If you see that a woman is interested in dating, ask her for a phone number. Say that you need a phone number in order to chat with her and arrange a romantic meeting.
Be polite, not only with the woman you like, but with everyone, because all the ladies always discuss men behind their backs and it is important that only the best is said about you.
Get rid of indecent manners, do not champ at the table, do not swear and do not spit, because this is unlikely to interest a woman. Try to take care of the beautiful field, give a hand, do not be rude or scandalous.
Take care of yourself, read books in your free time. After all, self-education is always important. At the time of the conversation with you, the lady should feel interest, because a man who can not connect a couple of words is unlikely to please her.
Take care of yourself, because untidy men are not a women’s dream. Take care of your face, do not forget to visit the shower before work, to iron clothes (and before work, if necessary, wash it). Choose a pleasant toilet water, because a man from whom a mile away then sweats is unlikely to attract attention.
What can not be done?
Do not try to tell the whole team about your past relationships, and even more so do not speak disrespectfully about your former lovers, because this will push away any woman.
Do not say that you recently liked a lady, because if a man meets a woman, then he should be free. Do not brag about Casanova’s reputation, because no woman wants to replenish the “collection” of abandoned young ladies. Also, do not complain about failures in your personal life, because a lady should not think that everyone has refused you.
Do not say vulgar phrases that will make women blush, it is better to leave vulgar jokes for your company.
Do not discuss your difficulties and problems with colleagues, because, firstly, those who constantly complain about their fate do not like, and secondly, if your difficulties are related to money and you start meeting a wealthy woman by chance, you can earn a reputation for gigolo. Remember that you are a man, and the strong sex is distinguished by the fact that he can independently cope with his difficulties.
If a woman hasn’t answered your signs of attention, don’t try to humiliate her and say nasty things about her, because such behavior will not humiliate her, but you, because nothing can be worse than a “offended man”, and a smart woman will not react .
If you managed to meet a girl of interest to you at work and your relationship even turned into something more, try not to show or tell your work colleagues about your relationship under any circumstances, especially in all the details. Such frankness can provoke a conflict between you and your soulmate.
In general, try never to tell people about your successes on the personal front, because many cannot be happy and begin to envy frankly, and sometimes "put sticks in wheels."
There are situations when interest has cooled during the relationship, then parting is inevitable, but try to part beautifully with the woman, because you still have to work in a team and therefore you should not make enemies in it, especially such as an abandoned woman. If the situation is the opposite and they left you, then do not try to take revenge and slander the woman, because such a quality is not appreciated in men.
Attract the attention of colleagues
In general, if you work in a large office, then there may be people with whom you are not familiar. And if you decide to meet a man at work, then you need to determine your “victim”. After that, it’s worth looking for meetings with the person you like. Through colleagues you can learn more about him and learn about his competence. When you will know its strengths, you can find an excuse for a conversation or an accidental meeting. Also, if you really want to, then you can ask your colleagues to play along with you and arrange a date, or at least a meeting with a colleague.
If your professional activity is related to communication, then you are incredibly lucky, because you will surely be able to approach a man yourself without hesitation and offer him a walk or start a conversation. But it is advisable to find out before the first step whether this man is alone. After all, perhaps he has a spouse, children or a girl. After all, you do not want to separate the marriage. In fact, it’s not so difficult to find out, there will be people at work who can find out this information. And if he is married, then on the finger of his right hand he should have a wedding ring.
If you are sure that the guy is single, then you can proceed with actions. First you need to have a friendly relationship with him, maybe he won’t even want to take you as a friend, then you should not be imposed on him.You can start communication by discussing working moments and issues.
How best to show your sympathy
A big role in meeting a girl at work will be played by your non-verbal, as external manifestations of behavior. It:
- that how will you look at her (how confident and piercing your look will be)
- how confident will your language of the body
- and of course yours speech (how confident she will be).
Why am I telling you all this?
To meet a girl at work, you need to correctly show her your sympathy so as not to fall into the category of friends. And show not how other men do it.
I noticed how many men tried to show sympathy for their colleague. But she did not seek to reciprocate. Now I will not “plunge” into the argument that girls like confident guys, and they “unsound” the unsure. You, as an adult, know this.
Therefore, much attention should be paid to surely attracting her attention.
Take the same peep game. She can be considered one of the main ways to attract her attention. But only if this is done by an insecure (read, low-ranking) man, then he will not succeed - he will only reduce the already small interest.
By the way, in this game it’s sometimes important intentionally not look at the girl. You will often notice with your peripheral vision that she is looking at you. Sometimes you need to deliberately not look at her so that all this time she doubts whether you have an interest in her or not.
This technique is called “closer-further” when you first show your interest, and then its absence. This same technique must be applied not only in glances, but also in communication with it.
When you will communicate in the company of colleagues, do not try to look only at her. On the contrary, your communication with her should be minimized. At the same time try sometimes her pin upto make her want to win your interest. By the way, these same jokes can be used when you communicate with her in private.
You don’t just want to know how to get to know a girl at work, right? I suspect that you also want to seduce her.
Of course, if you can show your confidence and high ranking with your non-verbal, then she herself will do everything possible to meet with you.
But what if you fail to interest her to such an extent?
In this case, good occasions for meetings will help you.
In order for you to have these reasons, you will need to find out about her interests. I don’t know how you will do it: through colleagues or finding it through social networks. But you will have to do it!
Find out what she does in her free time, if she has any hobbies, etc. This information will be useful to you when you invite her to a meeting. Because she can still refuse to “drink coffee” (for fear of publicity or the fact that she already has a husband / boyfriend), but she will most likely agree to go see the game of her favorite volleyball team (if any).
How to get acquainted with a man at work?
To get acquainted with a man and impress him you need to be guided by the following recommendations.
1. One must always remain natural. After all, if you have been working with a colleague for several years, then he most likely saw how you behave with men. And he will not like it at all if you try to look better in front of him. Remember that men do not like when girls are grimacing in front of them. Men most value women who do not cheat.
2. Whatever happens, you must always be calm. After all, a man will notice that you are nervous during a conversation, and perhaps the weight will not understand the way you wanted to convey to him.
3. You need to be courageous, especially if you are making good progress in your professional activities. You do not need a man to see your weaknesses.Of course, it is much better if he comes to you first. But if he does not take the first step, then everything is behind you.
4. When meeting and talking with the opposite sex, he just needs to smile. After all, as you know, a smile is able to fascinate everyone, especially men, so why not use this technique. A smile can be a signal of seduction, and then a man will approach you first and get to know you himself. As it should be manifested in such situations.
5. Before you go to get acquainted with a man, you need to tidy yourself up and look good. It is worth doing makeup, hair styling and dressing beautifully - to impress the man. It is worth remembering that for each venue should be its own clothes and atmosphere. If you meet at work, then previously on this day it is better to put on a skirt and blouse, and collect hair in a beautiful hairstyle or dissolve them. Before you go to a man you need to check the makeup, if necessary, you will have to correct it. But do not paint too much and look vulgar, as many men are for their natural beauty. If you use cosmetics, it is better to choose neutral tones.
6. You need to communicate with a man only on general topics that will be of interest to both of you. If you meet a colleague, you can discuss the state that the company is experiencing or think about how to increase sales efficiency. In general, there can be many topics for conversation.
In general, it is better to make such a situation so that the man himself wants to get to know you, because he is a strong sex and it is in his competence to get acquainted with girls and surprise them.
You should never, under any circumstances, show / tell your colleagues that you are meeting with her. No matter how your colleagues ask you to do so, you must restrain yourself and remember that privacy is paramount.
Now you know that dating and seducing a girl at work is not so difficult. The main thing is to follow a number of simple rules.